How it Works & Costs

More about our service

How it works

We send you a list of members when you join our service by post or email then throughout your membership period we follow up every month with an update of new members. You use these lists to contact other members.

You are invited to send us a photo of yourself; it isn’t compulsory, it’s your choice. You can send it in by post or email and, at your request, we will forward it to members free of charge. Very often our members swop photos directly between themselves using their phones, email or post.

Your profile

Your personal profile is compiled from the information you include on your membership application form. It is included in the lists sent to other members. Only your first name and county are published but your phone number,land line or mobile or both, and email can be included if you require.

Getting in contact

You choose the method that other members must use when they contact you. This can be one or more of the following:

  • telephone
    People are very keen on text messages as an initial contact today but there are still those who have a preference for the telephone chat or even a letter. We like to give people the choice.
  • post
    To protect your privacy we allocate you a personal box number through which we forward mail from other members. Your address is known only to us. This would also be your reference number and proof of membership.
  • email
    Include your email address if you would like. This is a popular method of first contact and sending photos to other members.


  • 6 months membership costs £49 for your first list of members plus a further 6 updates.
  • 12 months membership costs £95 for your first list of members plus a further 12 updates.

Your own profile is published for the same period. If no match found you get an extra 6 months … for free!

Example lists

Please click on the following links to view example profiles of members. Names, area and methods of contact are available to current members only. Example Ladies. Example Men.

Click HERE to join now.